When most families think about estate planning, they focus on who gets the house or how to divide the savings account. While these are vital decisions, they miss the larger, more dangerous picture. The true measure of an estate plan isn’t just how well it distributes assets, it’s how effectively it prevents the family wars that destroy them.
In Ohio, the window for challenging a will is surprisingly brief. Under Ohio Revised Code, potential heirs have a mere 3-month window to contest a will once it is admitted to probate. This short fuse creates a high-pressure environment where ambiguity in your documents can explode into litigation almost immediately after a funeral.
We don’t say this to scare you. We say this because at Jarvis Law Office, we believe your legacy should be a blessing, not a burden. Moving beyond simple document preparation to a “preventative law” approach allows you to secure your family’s future against the most common pitfalls.
The Ohio “Red Flag” Assessment
Before we discuss specific statutes, we need to diagnose the health of your current strategy. If you answer “yes” to any of the following, your estate is statistically at a higher risk for disputes:
- Are you part of a blended family? If you have step-children or have remarried, standard “I love you” wills often unintentionally disinherit biological children or spark fierce blended family inheritance battles.
- Are you treating children unequally? Leaving different amounts to children without clear, legal justification and communication is the number one trigger for will contests.
- Did you use a DIY online kit? Most generic templates fail to account for Ohio’s specific witness requirements or the new electronic execution standards.
- Is your plan older than 5 years? Outdated documents often fail to address changes in asset protection laws or family dynamics.
If these red flags are present, relying on a standard will is like building a house on a cracked foundation. You need a structural fix.
Understanding the Elective Share
One of the most dangerous misconceptions in Ohio estate law is the belief that you have total control over who gets your assets. Under Ohio Revised Code, you cannot fully disinherit a spouse, regardless of what your will says.
If your will leaves nothing to your spouse, perhaps because you are separated but not divorced, or because you want all assets to go to children from a previous marriage, the surviving spouse has the right to “elect against the will.” They can legally claim up to one-half of the net estate.
The Fix: This is where a probate lawyer can help you utilize trust planning rather than a simple will. By properly funding assets into a trust during your lifetime, you may exercise greater control over asset distribution and protect the inheritances of children from prior marriages, preventing the state from rewriting your legacy.
The Pre-Death Shield
Most people assume a will is tested only after they die. By then, it’s too late for you to explain your intentions or prove your mental capacity. This is why “undue influence” and “lack of capacity” are the most common grounds for lawsuits.
However, Ohio offers a unique, underutilized legal mechanism called the Pre-Death Will Validation.
This statute allows you to petition the court to declare the validity of your will while you are still alive. You go before a judge, testify that this is your will, that you are of sound mind, and that you are acting freely. Once the judge issues an order validating the will, it becomes virtually contest-proof regarding your signature and capacity.
Why isn’t this standard practice? Many general practice firms simply aren’t aware of it or don’t want to go through the extra steps. For clients anticipating family friction, this is the single most effective preventative measure you can take.
The 3-Month Ticking Clock
Once your will is admitted to probate, the clock starts ticking. Interested parties have three months to file a contest.
For the person you choose to manage your estate, this period is critical. If you are unsure how to choose executor of will, remember that they need the temperament to handle this pressure. An executor who delays or communicates poorly during this 3-month window can inadvertently trigger suspicion and lawsuits.
Your choice of executor is a strategic decision, not just a sentimental one. You need someone capable of handling this strict legal timeline with transparency and authority.
The DIY vs. Professional Estate Plans
In the age of LegalZoom, the temptation to save money on drafting documents is high. However, we often see families spend thousands of dollars in probate court cleaning up mistakes made by a $99 online form.
The risks have evolved with the Ohio Electronic Wills Act. While Ohio now recognizes certain electronic wills, the requirements for remote witnessing and digital signatures are incredibly specific. A “digital will” that doesn’t strictly adhere to these new protocols is invalid, meaning your estate would be treated as if you died without a will at all.
Consider the Cost of Risk:
- Professional Plan: An investment in secure drafting, typically costing a small percentage of the estate’s value.
- DIY Cleanup: Litigation fees in Ohio can easily exceed $10,000 to $20,000 just to resolve ambiguities or witness errors.
Avoiding estate planning mistakes isn’t just about legality, it’s about financial stewardship. Professional planning is an insurance policy against the erosion of your family’s wealth through legal fees.
Power of Attorney Vulnerabilities
Estate disputes often start before death. A poorly drafted Power of Attorney (POA) can be a license to steal. If your POA grants broad “gifting” powers without restriction, an agent could legally drain your accounts before you pass away, leaving nothing for your intended heirs.
We recommend specific protections within the document. You might require a “Monitor” to review the agent’s transactions, or limit gifting capabilities. Understanding the nuances of a power of attorney in Ohio is vital.
There are different types of power of attorney, and selecting the right one prevents your own assets from being weaponized against you.
Communicating Your Plan
Even the most perfect legal document cannot fix a broken relationship. One of the most effective ways to prevent a will contest is communication.
We encourage clients to have the “Inheritance Talk.” This doesn’t mean you have to show everyone dollar figures, but you should manage expectations. If one child is receiving the house and another is receiving the investment account, explaining why you made that decision while you are alive can remove the sting of surprise.
Remember, grief combined with surprise often looks like anger. By removing the surprise, you reduce the anger, and the likelihood of a lawsuit.
Next Steps for a Secure Future
Your life changes, and your plan must adapt. A marriage, a diagnosis, or a new grandchild are all triggers to update estate plan documents.
At Jarvis Law Office, we build protective perimeters around your family and assets. Whether it’s utilizing the Pre-Death Validation statute or crafting a trust that survives the spousal elective share, our goal is to make sure your wishes are followed exactly as you intend.
Don’t wait for a crisis to find out if your plan holds up. Contact us today to review your estate plan and confirm you are fully protected under Ohio law.









