Someone with dementia should consider moving into a care home when their safety, health, or well-being can no longer be managed at home, either because their needs have become too complicated, they require 24-hour supervision, or their caregiver is overwhelmed or unable to provide adequate support.
According to a 2025 study published in BMJ, more than half, about 57%, of people with dementia move to a nursing home within five years of diagnosis.
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Key Takeaways
- Over half of people with dementia move to a nursing home within five years of diagnosis, making early planning essential.
- Signs it’s time for a care home include safety risks, skipped medications, caregiver burnout, and professional recommendations.
- Dementia care options range from in-home help to memory care units, with costs and care levels varying significantly.
- Legal planning can protect assets, simplify planning, and reduce long-term stress for families.
What Is Dementia and How Does It Progress?
Dementia is a condition that causes memory loss, confusion, and changes in thinking or behavior. It gets worse over time.
Early on, a person might just forget names or appointments. As dementia progresses, they can struggle with everyday tasks, lose track of where they are, and have trouble speaking or understanding others.
Personality and mood changes are common. In later stages, most people need help with eating, bathing, dressing, and staying safe. There is no cure, and care needs grow as the condition advances.
How Do You Know It’s Time for a Dementia Care Home?
When dementia affects safety or daily life, a care home may be needed. Look for these signs:
- Getting lost, even in familiar places
- Forgetting to eat, bathe, or take medicine
- Unexplained injuries or frequent accidents
- Changes in mood, such as aggression or confusion
- Unsafe use of appliances or leaving doors unlocked
- Caregiver stress, exhaustion, or health problems
- A doctor or a nurse recommends more support
It’s not easy to decide when home care is no longer enough, but the need is more common than many realize.
What Are My Options for Dementia Care?
Based on data from the CareScout Cost of Care Survey for 2024, the national median cost for assisted living is $71,800 a year. Knowing these numbers upfront helps you compare care options realistically and plan for what fits your loved one’s needs and your budget. There are several ways to care for someone with dementia:
Home Care
Caregivers come to the person’s home to help with meals, bathing, medications, and daily tasks. This option allows the person to stay in familiar surroundings, but it may not be enough if care needs become too great.
Assisted Living
Residents have their own rooms or apartments but get help with daily tasks. Staff is available, but not all facilities are equipped for advanced dementia care. Based on data from the CareScout Cost of Care Survey for 2024, the national median monthly cost for assisted living is $5,900, adding up to nearly $71,000 a year. Knowing these numbers upfront helps you compare care options realistically and plan for what fits your loved one’s needs and your budget.
Care Home (Nursing Home or Memory Care)
Care homes offer round-the-clock care, medical supervision, and special programs for people with dementia. Memory care units have extra security and staff trained for dementia-related behaviors.
How Can I Make the Best Decision for My Parent and My Family?
Supporting a loved one through this change can be overwhelming, especially for caregivers.
According to the Alzheimer’s Association’s 2024 report, 70% of dementia caregivers say that coordinating care is a major source of stress. This makes it even more important to seek help, share responsibilities, and take care of your own well-being while managing this transition.
Here are a few practical steps that can help:
Who Should I Talk to Before Making a Decision?
Talk to your loved one’s doctor, social worker, or a dementia care professional. Get input from family members who help with care. Ask professionals for an honest assessment of needs and risks.
How Do I Discuss the Move With My Parent and Siblings?
Be clear and gentle. Explain why extra help is needed, focusing on safety and health. Listen to your loved one’s concerns and include them in the decision when possible. For siblings, keep communication open and share facts about your parent’s condition and needs.
What Should I Look for When Visiting a Care Home?
Check if the facility is clean, secure, and welcoming. Meet the staff and ask about their training in dementia care. Look at how residents are treated and if they seem engaged and comfortable. Ask about safety measures, daily routines, and medical support. Use a checklist to compare options.
How Can I Support My Loved One During the Move?
Moving to a care home is a big change for everyone. The transition can be easier with the right steps.
How Do I Help My Parent Adjust to a Care Home?
Bring familiar items from home, like photos, blankets, or favorite clothes. Visit often, especially in the beginning. Talk with staff about your loved one’s routines, likes, and dislikes. Keep a steady routine to give comfort and stability.
How Can My Family and I Cope With the Transition?
Share your feelings with trusted friends or a support group. Give yourself permission to take breaks and rest. Stay involved in your loved one’s care but remember that asking for help is okay. Letting professionals step in can help your family focus on quality time, not just caregiving.
When Do You Need a Memory Care Planning Attorney?
If your loved one needs more care, it’s time to look at legal and financial plans. A memory care planning attorney can set up a power of attorney, update wills, and make sure assets are protected. They also help with Medicaid, insurance, and long-term care costs. Getting legal help early can prevent problems and give your family clarity about decisions and money.
Ready to Make a Confident Plan for Your Loved One’s Care?
Choosing the right care and protecting your family’s future shouldn’t be complicated or stressful. At Jarvis Law Office, we help you avoid probate, organize your assets, and keep your trusted financial advisor involved, so your loved one’s needs are covered and your peace of mind is protected.
If you want clear, practical answers or you’re ready to set up a plan, connect with us directly through our contact page. We’re here to help you move forward with confidence. Contact Jarvis Law Office.
